Lebanon
like North-Korea, Japan or China have one of the best education
systems in the world. Children learn in primary school 3 languages
(Arabic, French, & English) and some event more with Spanish. We
teach our kids that excellence it's to know everything by head and to
speak it out-loud in class.
And if our kids don't get good grades we yell at them and put all our salary in private tutors. Some of our kids become so genius and are always succeeding in school. And the message this kids get it's that all is easy, everything will always be fine if they learn it by head.
And for some of those kids it's really super easy for them to get good grades like that. And theirs parents so proud of them give them money, gift and tell them to nothing in the house else than studying so they don't have any independence and some of them at the age of 20 years old still don't know how to cook eggs or event how to do a sandwich. And the trouble's is that they are going to reach a point in their life where it's not going to be easy, and they will get lost.
I think those kids we're creating actually have like a sort of Fixed Mindset Syndrome. You can see there more informations about this syndrome: http://michaelgr.com/2007/04/15/fixed-mindset-vs-growth-mindset-which-one-are-you/
And if our kids don't get good grades we yell at them and put all our salary in private tutors. Some of our kids become so genius and are always succeeding in school. And the message this kids get it's that all is easy, everything will always be fine if they learn it by head.
And for some of those kids it's really super easy for them to get good grades like that. And theirs parents so proud of them give them money, gift and tell them to nothing in the house else than studying so they don't have any independence and some of them at the age of 20 years old still don't know how to cook eggs or event how to do a sandwich. And the trouble's is that they are going to reach a point in their life where it's not going to be easy, and they will get lost.
I think those kids we're creating actually have like a sort of Fixed Mindset Syndrome. You can see there more informations about this syndrome: http://michaelgr.com/2007/04/15/fixed-mindset-vs-growth-mindset-which-one-are-you/
They
don't get any part-time jobs, or anything type of jobs when they are
studying and some of them never worked until they get their college
or event master degree, but like Businessinsider said : ''A diploma
it's just a door to the work forces and may the best man or woman
win.'' So with their fixed-mindset they still think everything will
be easy with their GPA they will get every jobs they want, but
actually in the real life this is not the case so they will get the
felling like a bomb was trough in their face when they will finally
woke-up of their illusion. And that is a really dangerous thing, I
think, to send our kids out into the world with this.
And
the questions is how we help this kids ? And that a very difficult
question to answer when you think of the pressure of college
admissions for that perfect transcript, or this perfect student.
And
yet unfortunately, the college admissions system, isn't actually
looking for growth right now but for robots student. And that the big
problems with this news generation of ROBOT STUDENT we are creating:
''why parents would tell their children to be lest like a robot and
to learn for fun, when college and university are just looking for
that perfect transcript ?'' So we have created this fragile
troubleshoots people more likely to get depression in the future in
their life when thing will not be easy for them.
At
the end what we must think as a parent or a teacher did we provide to
our kids and the new generation with this type of education what they
need to survive in this world ?
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